Two choices: Negative or Positive. It's easy to be Negative as there are so many situations and realities that lead any sane (and very definitely insane) persons in this direction with very little effort. It's harder to be Positive and the trick is to constantly surround yourself with what brings you a sense of peace and pleasure and an awe for what is greater and more constantly amazing than yourself.
When dealing with situations that are a challenge I believe it is important to: Feel good. Be Ready. Get on with it.
Intent is everything. Failure inevitable. Success sweeter for the effort.
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